How can someone like you if you dont like yourself? Why do you expect someone to come along and accept you the way that you are if you are constantly struggling with yourself? Some people yern for a relationship yet are constantly fighting with themselves. Would you waste your time with someone who is constantly seeking aprovel and re-asurence?
The first step in haveing a relationship with someone else is to co-exist with yourself. Pretending that your happy with yourself may work for a bit, but once the other person sees that you are struggling then chances are she/he is going to leave. There are some people out there that will stick with it, but those people are rare which makes them all the more valueable when you find one.
(psycology - finding out whats wrong with other people and telling them how screwed up they are.)
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Amazingly, there are times when everyone is looking for approval or to improve themselves. Or that they're not good enough. I've suffered from low self-esteem for a long time, and I've had fair share of girls who liked me at the time tell me how much they exactly hated that in me. So I tried to fix it, and I see myself now as someone more desireable than I once did.
Self esteem is a funny thing, but that's for another musing. I wish I felt more valuable to others, and specific others, sometimes. Sometimes I feel as if, if I were to die tomorrow, it just wouldn't matter. We all go through that, but honestly, I hate the idea that I've never done anything on this world that would leave them hurting if I were to be no more- That I haven't made that sort of impression on someone. I don't know... I've even been told by a few people that I've made that sort of impression... Still, we all feel that way at times...
[disillusioned (J :: M) 7/27/03 12:20 AM] |
hmm...
If you've never thought about slitting your own wrist and watching the blood flow then you're missing out.
Interesting piece. A shame none of us are doing too well on the relationship front. Teach me, sensai!
[Lux (J) 7/28/03 3:37 PM] |
where did this come from and aren't you the one who claims they know nothing of relationships having never had one?
[noprotein (J :: M) 7/29/03 3:07 PM] |
relationships are quite complicated i've realized...especially when you're getting older. one of the people someone dates will be the one that someone will marry. crazy.....they're too much to think about therefore i will not.
[je_ne_sais_quoi (J) 7/29/03 9:45 PM] |
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